Sexual Intimacy during the lock-down

Sexual intimacy between couples in long distance relationships is really very important. As seen in our previous post, if you haven’t read that, click on the link below.

The couple, Fred and Eve had begun to experience sexual frustration because they were apart. And because they had no foreknowledge on how to keep their sexual intimacy alive with the distance. And that put a lot of strain on them and their productivity.

So, what’s the best way out of this? How best can couples ensure that they enjoy sexual intimacy with their partner? And still achieve mind-blowing orgasms amidst the lock-down.

There are several ways to keep sexual intimacy between couples in a distance relationship alive. One of such, we’d be discussing today.

Let’s talk about sexting.

Many of us may have come across the word ‘sexting’. Maybe read it in books or seen it on the internet. But do we really know what sexting is? And how we can use sexting to strengthen our sexual relationships?


Sexting is much more than just sending naked or provocative pictures  or messages to each other. Sexting is a way of exploring one’s sexuality and requires trust between couples. According to a 2017 study published in Computers in Human Behavior, 62% of the participants were couples in committed relationships. Half of them admitted to having sent or received naughty text messages and randy pictures and that it had a positive impact on their sexual and emotional relationships.

What this means is that sexting is a healthy technique to help improve sexual intimacy between you and your partner. Whether you’ve been in a relationship for a while or you’re just starting something new, sending flirty, dirty messages is a great way to spice things up and keep them fresh — especially if you and your partner are long-distance.

If you don’t know how to start sexting with your partner or can’t find the right words to say because it feels awkward? You can draw from the past. Talk about the last time you both had sex. Discuss what went down. Talk about how you miss that and can’t wait to have them do those things to you again.

Oh Fred, I miss your lips on my neck.

I miss your hands running down my thighs.

I can’t stop thinking about that time you held me in the shower and made passionate love to me.

If it’s a new relationship, ensure that your partner is okay with it. According to sex therapist, Vanessa Marin, it is best to find a specific language you both feel comfortable with. If you’re not comfortable with being too explicit from the get-go, that’s okay — just start slow. I think the best way to get started is just by looking at examples.

What are you wearing right now?

I’ve never felt as attracted to anyone else as I am to you.

I had such a good dream about you last night.

I’ve been bad and I need someone to punish me.


So, If all this sexting is getting you hot and bothered, what are you going to do? Your partner isn’t there, you’re getting all wet and soaking up the sheets. Your cock is so hard, it’s threatening to explode. What would you do? Not take advantage of it and just go to bed? Heck no! This is where you get your sex toys involved – vibrators, dildos, cock rings, lube – whatever it takes for you to get off while your partner gets off too, reach for it.

If you haven’t incorporated sex toys into your sex life with your partner, you don’t know what you are missing. Involving these toys during a sexting session is the best way to ensure that you increase your chances of achieving mind-blowing orgasms. Yay!

One of such great toys is The Isaiah Thrusting Silicone Vibrator. This is a Silicone Thrusting Dildo Vibrator With 3cm Extension. It thrusts, it vibrates, has a suction base for hands-free fun and can be controlled from a distance with remote control.

The Isaiah Thrusting Silicone Vibrator will definitely have you gasping for breath afterwards. It can be used in the shower and has amazing features such as

USB Rechargeable

Waterproof & submersible

Wireless remote control

Smooth silicone surface.

To purchase this toy, please click on the link below.

Watch this space as we explore more amazing ways to get your groove on amidst the lock-down… You deserve that orgasm, go get it!

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